Life

After studies, 80% of the women are first sold (married) and then they start building their career. 80% of the men start their career first and then they go for marriage.
20% of the women will build their career and go for marriage. In similar fashion, 20% of men go for marriage and build their career.
Great example: Most of our class girl students :) :) :)

Why is this like this??????????????
Women attains maturity by the age of 13 or 14 (maximum). If its Engineering, they will complete by 22 max. MCA 24 max. Its been almost 10 years, they were not used.
Even people are like machines. It will work only if it used properly. If our maturity is not used for long time, automatically it will start loosing its stiffness and no one will opt.
In the case of girls, they have very little time between their studies and excelling in their career. And the other obvious reason is, when girls are aged, they cannot be married soon. This may be the reasons for girls getting married soon.

Questions???????????????
Why we are denying ourselves in those 10 years
I will never blame this society, I will blame each and every individual. Why we are denying ourselves.

If we feel like population is increased. We are modernized. Why don't we think about safe sex. Our previous generation can teach that (when we become matured). Why that is not happening?

Human is made up of three things.
1. Brain - to map the situations with the given logic
2. Heart / mind - to emotionally attach ourselves with the environment
3. Sex - Inorder to multiply the race
Apart from these all others are materialistic. If people are working in foreign countries, they are working. Ultimately they are also going to do the same thing (like eat, sleep and do other work) as we do. If they feel like they are in a free world, its their imagination. If they feel like they have a very beautiful car, even bus/train can take us to those destinations, where they will go. Car is not going to take them to a very different world. Its all their imagination. Computers, gadgets, ipods everything is materialistic.

My View:
Thinking like we respect our brain and start studying. But ultimately going in to materialistic world.
Thinking like we are using the brain and ultimately denying/cheating ourselves from sex.
Only when we start respecting our brain and giving due importance for heart and sex, we will be a complete man / women.

Vinoth's marriage

Date: 10-Jun-2007

எங்கள் கூட்டணியில் இன்னொரு புதுவரவு

சாமியார், சதீஸ், கோபு, பிள்ளையார், கீர்த்தி வாஸன், அதிர்ச்சி, முரளி மற்றும் நான் எல்லோரும் சென்று இருந்தோம். மிகவும் சந்தோஷமாக இருந்தது.

அறியாமை

அறியாமையுடன்
தொடங்கும் காரியம்
தோண்டி பார்க்கும்
ஆர்வம்
வெற்றி நிச்சயம்

எடிசனுக்கு
என்னத்தை கண்டுபிடிக்கிறோம்
என்று தெரியாது
பில் கேட்ஸ்க்கு
கம்பெணி என்னவாகும் -
தொடங்கும் பொழுது தெரியாது

எங்கே தொலைந்தாய்
நீ
என்னை தவிக்கவிட்டு
எங்கே மறைந்தாய்

ஒரு பெண்
அவள் வடிவு
கல்லூரியில் பார்த்த
அதே கண்கள்
இன்றும் பார்க்கின்றன
ஆனால்
அவளை நெருங்க நெருங்க
அவளை சுற்றி
எல்லாம் தெரிகிறது
அன்றுஅவள் மட்டும் தெரிந்தாலே
அறியாமையே
எங்கே போனாய் நீ

வாழ்க்கைஓடுகிறது
எதை நோக்கி ஓடுகிறது
தெரியவில்லை
காசு பணம் சேர்க்கவா
நான் பத்து காசு சேர்த்தால்
அடுத்தவன்
நூறு காசு சேர்க்கிறானே
சாதி சனத்தை
நல்ல நிலைக்கு கொண்டு வரவா....
ஆம்அங்கே கொஞ்சம்
அறியாமை இருக்கிறது

கூலிக்கு மாரடிக்கும்
பொழப்பில் அறியாமையா?
இரண்டு மாதம்
சம்பளம் இல்லையென்றால்
வேறிடம்போய் விடுவேன்.

மனைவியிடமா....
அவளை
தொடும் பொழுதெல்லாம்
கொண்டு வந்தகாசெ ஞாபகம் வருகிறது.
அவள்
என் தோழியானாள்.
ஆராயஆரம்பித்துள்ளேன்.
ஆம்
அவளிடம் கொஞ்சம்
அறியாமை இருக்கிறது.

பிள்ளையிடமா
என் உயிர்
என் பாதி அறியாமை
அங்கேதான்.

வேறு
எங்கே இருக்கிறது
தேடுகிறேன்
ஒவ்வொரு
பெண்ணின் காதலிலும்,
ஒவ்வொரு
ஆடவனின் நட்பிலும்,
என்
மனைவியின் ஸ்பரிஸத்திலும்,
ஒவ்வொரு
மூலையிலும் தேடுகிறேன்.

ஆண்டவனே
அறியாமையை
இழந்து, அசிங்கமாய்
ஆகிவிடாமல்
என்னை பார்த்துக்கொள்.

ஏ. ஆன்ந்த்.

Murali's House Warming Ceremony

The function took place on May 28th. Vinoth, Srini, Gopi and Kirthi attended the function. Unfortunately I couldn't able to attend the function.
I told my congratulations to Murali. We are all really blessed to attend such functions. This really shows that we are improving. Each one of us are placed in beautiful jobs with hand full of money.
I pray to God that everyone should get married soon and they should have a peaceful and settled life.

Murali's Marriage

Third marriage from our group. Surprisingly, when I got married in February, Adirchi's wife was pregnant and when Murali is getting married, my wife is also pregnant :)
Hope it continues for the next marriage too. We congratulate Murali for the same :)
In the morning, Pillayar, Gopi, Sathis, Raj's father, Vinoth's father went for Murali's marriage. In the evening I went for the marriage. The same gift for Murali too.
The best part is, the girl is well educated and she is working as a lecturer. The same happened for adirchi too and for me, she just completed her studies :) The pair looked really nice.

Vinoth's House Warming Ceremony

The ceremony took place on 2-3-2006. The new house is in Ponmalaipatti. Unfortunately many couldn't turn for the function.
But at the later stage, each of them went to their house and wished him. The house was really beautiful. It has a master bedroom, another room, a big hall, kitchen and pooja room. Vinoth has a separate portion in the first floor. Half of the first floor is open and in the remaining half, they have built for Vinoth. The open place is really nice and we can view the rock temple from there.

Murali's Engagement

Nice Thoughts

Be Good to Everyone
and
You will always be with good people


When somebody does wrong to you
its not because of intention,
think always that, its because of circumstances....
You will have a peaceful and happy life.....


What happens if you leave your current job and sit simply in house. How much time you can sustain in life. Six months, one year. That is our fate regarding what we are doing now.


We are employees and we all know that, we work like hell, but the company takes most of it. We always do, whatever is the expected output. But the leaders are not like that. They work for something, which no one knows. Hence, they get that much money :)
We are loosing both our time and creativity for few thousands of rupees. We dare to take the next step because we are cowards within our heart. We try to persuade ourselves saying that, I have a family, they should live happily etc.

Anand's Wedding

Date: 02-02-2006
Its really nice to write about my wedding :)
It went really fine. Pillayar, Gopi, Murali, Satish, Vinoth's father, Saamiyar's father and Muruganandham's father came to the function. The function took place in Keelasevalpatti, near Pudukkottai Tirupathur. After marriage in the evening, I took her to my place, Narchandupatti. Its near Pudukkottai.
In the photo, the persons who are warning blue shirts are my uncles. The person who is wearning a red cloth is my first uncle and who is standing next to my wife is my second uncle :)
The guys gifted me a DVD player (not the same one, given to adirchi :) ).